How to Make ALL your Relationships Supportive Relationships

My Beloved Readers, this is a most interesting lesson. The first question that comes up in people’s minds upon reading the title of this lesson is, how is this possible for there are people in my life who are definitely not supportive of me. They are attacking, angry, judgmental, divisive, they hold grudges, they are into their negative egos, they are victims, run by their emotional body, disturbed, they even have betrayed my trust. So how can you say, Dr Joshua that you can help me make all relationships supportive? This person is unsalvageable and as my grandpappy used to say, “You can’t mend a broken dish!”

When I hear this, this brings music to my ears for I very much enjoy a good Spiritual challenge. The great esoteric secret I am about to share with you is the paradigm shift of all paradigm shifts from negative ego interpretation to a Spiritual/ Christ /Buddha interpretation.

What I am saying is this: I am not saying I can make this relationship personally work and I am not saying from a distance I can make this person right with self and right with God. What I am saying is the fact that this relationship is not supportive has nothing to do with the other person, it has to do with your faulty thinking.

When life and all relationships are seen through the Spiritual/ Christ/ Buddha Consciousness all relationships automatically become supportive. The reason for this is that from God’s Perspective and your Higher Self’s Perspective that other person is giving you a Spiritual test, teaching, lesson, blessing, opportunity to teach you something you need to learn and it would not be happening if you did not need the lesson. That other person from God and your Higher Self’s Perspective is your master teacher. Everything they do of a good or bad nature is your master teacher. So what are they teaching you?

First off, they are teaching you:

Spiritual/ Christ/ Buddha Consciousness and to transcend negative ego/separative /fear based consciousness
personal power and self-mastery
invulnerability
to keep your bubble of protection up
detachment
to respond instead of react
preference instead of attachment
to look at things as preferences instead of attachments
to look at things as Spiritual tests and lessons
self love
that an attack shows they are coming from fear and fear is a call for love and you give them that love
to set a better example
to have a strong psychological immune system and not catch their disease
that you cause your own reality and you are not a victim
to communicate in a centered, calm, rational, loving manner
to turn the other cheek
forgiveness
unconditional love
non-judgmentalness
defenselessness
harmlessness
humility
even-mindedness
to transcend negative ego duality and demonstrate that you are unaffected by profit or loss, pleasure or pain, sickness or health, victory or defeat, praise or criticism – in all things you remain the same!

My Beloved Readers, these are just a few of the lessons God and your Higher Self are teaching you through this experience. Would you not agree that this person is your master teacher teaching you all these lessons? Would you not agree this is a great blessing to have the opportunity to practice and set this more Spiritual/ Christ/ Buddha example? Would you not agree there are no accidents in the universe and that if it happened it happened for a reason, which is to teach you something you need to learn?

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About the Author: Dr Joshua David Stone

Dr Joshua David Stone, the founder of the I AM University, was one of the most influential Spiritual teachers, leaders and forerunners of our time. He had a Ph.D. in Transpersonal Psychology and was a licensed Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in California, USA. He made his mark in the Consciousness Community as a prolific writer and introduced inspired ideas such as striving for “integrated full spectrum prism consciousness” to unfold and reveal the fullness of our Divine Potential and transcending the negative ego mind as a requirement to realize our Divine Self. He was a pioneer in the field of Spiritual psychology and authored the concept of integrated ascension as well as the noble ideal of striving to become an Integrated Ascended (Enlightened) Master, both terms which he coined to stress the importance of mastering and integrating the Spiritual, psychological and physical/Earthly aspects of self to follow an integrated and balanced approach to Self Realization.