We are all involved in all kinds of relationships. No man, no woman in this world is an island unto himself or herself.
We are all interconnected. We are all dependent on each other, and so we have all kinds of relationships with one another.
We have relationships with our romantic partner, with our parents, with our siblings, with our in-laws and greater circle of family, with our friends, we have relationships with our neighbors, with our colleagues at work, with other cultures and countries, literally with God and the every human being in the world (whether we consciously realize it or not) because we are all one human family.
However, we not only have a million relationships, we also have a million relationship problems, both personally and on a planetary level. So today I would like to share with you how you can resolve ALL your relationship problems once and for all.
Okay, so what’s the problem and what’s the solution?
We have a million relationship problems in this world because we don’t relate to each other properly. So the problem is that we don’t relate to each other properly. And therefore, the logic solution to our relationship problems is to relearn to relate to each other properly.
Why don’t we relate to each other properly?
Because, collectively, as a human species, we have cut ourselves off from our Divine Source. We deny our higher self and are identified with our lower self. Therefore we reduce ourselves to our lower self and physical body and behave accordingly; we are selfish, afraid, attacking, and we act separatively in all that we do.
So, to begin with, we are not right with ourselves. That’s really our core problem. Nobody in this world is really right with themselves because all of us – even those of us who consciously work on learning this lesson – we are all still identified with the lower self to a very high degree.
I mean, how can you expect to be right with yourself if you deny your true self, your higher self, your Divine Self? Yet, this is exactly what we are doing in this world. We deny who we are and reduce ourselves to our bodies and so we don’t like ourselves and don’t think very highly of us, we don’t think we have any worth and value because of reducing ourselves to our lower self and our mistakes and successes, and we wonder why that is? So it is really simple: You cannot be right with yourself if you deny your true self, your higher self, the part of yourself that is eternal.
And, you see, here is the thing. We cannot separate ourselves from our own thinking because our thinking literally swirls around us in our mental aura – which is why Dr Stone said that every thought you think is a lens you see through. So we cannot separate ourselves from our own thinking, and so we end up projecting our wrong relationship to self – all our faulty, fear-based thinking – onto all our relationships, onto God and the whole world. As Dr Stone said, “We don’t have relationships with people. We have relationships with our beliefs about people.” We don’t see people as they are. We see people as we are because we all walk around in this world projecting our thinking onto everyone because again, we cannot separate ourselves from our own thinking.
