In truth it is not time that heals, as people often say, it is the mind that heals. Let me explain. This expression is often used in relationship to some emotional trauma of some kind, be it a divorce and death of a loved one, or some traumatic mental and emotional event.
The best way I can explain this is using the theory of Elisabeth Kübler Ross that people go through four stages of mental and emotional reactions in dealing with death or loss. They are: denial, anger, depression and acceptance. Most people on this planet accept this as a truth. If one is run by the personality rather than guided by the Soul or Monad it is true. This is exactly how most people on this planet respond.
However, the truth is for an Integrated Ascended Master, they would not respond this way, for they are the master of their emotions and are not run by the personality. They would not need to go through these personality level stages for they are not a victim, and they are able to transcend negative emotions for they know they are created by the mind and not any outside person or event. The Integrated Ascended Master would go right to acceptance and not need denial, anger and depression. This is a personality level theory that stems out of traditional psychology, not Spiritual psychology. This is not to say there is any judgment if anyone goes through this process for most do. I am just trying to show you that death and loss have absolutely nothing to do with people going through this, it is their consciousness and mind.
So when people go through a divorce, loss or traumatic emotional experience, it is not time that is healing, it is that time causes the person to think new thoughts which creates new and different emotional experiences. So over time, people begin to think about that experience in a new way, like looking at it as a blessing in disguise, or by looking at the silver lining, or learning things from it, or it becomes buried by new experiences such as a new relationship, new friends, new life experience which is the catalyst for new ways of thinking and new thoughts which create new feelings. So in truth it is not time that heals anything, it is the changing of one‘s thoughts on a conscious and subconscious level that is healing the person. That is why the Bible says, “Be ye transformed by the renewal of your mind.“ You are what you think! As a man thinketh, so is he!
In India and other countries on this planet people believe in reincarnation, so death is looked at as a release from the confines of the physical body and is not perceived as the death of the Soul which many in the west think is the physical body itself. So death is a joyous experience.
It is the same thing with our life experience; the negative ego and personality tell us that some things that happen are good and some things are bad. This is illusion. Everything that has ever happened to you in the past, presently or will happen to you in the future in truth from God’s perspective is good! There are no accidents and everything happens for a reason. You are meeting yourself! You are meeting your thoughts and actions from past lives and this life, which is the law of karma or cause and effect.
