Earth is a school. The universe is a university.
We are all in school here. We are here to learn to demonstrate our Divinity in thought, feeling, word and deed. We are all here to co-create an enlightened world.
Yet, as we all know, if we look around, we are far from living in an enlightened world. So we all are tested every moment of our lives.
And in every situation we have the opportunity to either respond or react.
When we respond, we do so from our conscious mind, consciously choosing to deal with the situation in a certain way. Ideally, in a loving way.
When we react, we do so from the subconscious mind, on automatic pilot.
When someone judges or attacks us, and we let the incoming energy go right into our subconscious mind, solar plexus, and emotional body, we will feel hurt and withdraw, or lash back. We are letting the other person trigger our feelings and emotions.
When we consciously respond, we are in control. When we subconsciously react, we are being controlled. Then we are a victim.
We are here to become masters. Therefore, when you react, you re-enact the lesson. And you will have to go through the same lesson over and over again until you learn to respond from love instead of react from fear. So you always want to respond in life rather than react.
In truth, we are all invulnerable psychologically.
Now, that is a big statement. To be invulnerable means that we can’t get emotionally hurt unless we choose to. And we choose to be emotionally hurt and victimized when we live out of the subconscious mind, on automatic pilot, instead of being present in the Superconscious-mind-attuned conscious mind and responding with love.
So always strive to respond from self-mastery.
Think about it. I hope I could be of service to you. Have a fantastic day!

